My mind is all but made up to getting the xdm but I was wondering if we could discuss the pros and cons of each gun.
The OP was asking about the XDm, which actually has a higher capacity (16) than the M&P (15).I own a XD .40, and my Father owns an M&P .40. For safety I have to go with the XD. The M&P is an overall slimmer pistol. The M&P also has higher capacity magazines. Both are great shooting guns, and both feel really good in my hands. I would not trade my XD for one, but I would deffently purchase one.