I would expect there is a lot of "like" on this forum for XD/XDM pistols. Don't remember complaints about blow ups/kabooms whatever you want to call them.
There is a certain amount of XD/XDM talk on arfcom. Mostly people just asking about why they aren't more popular, if they are reliable, etc. People will jump in on both sides, some like them or even swear by them and some don't like them.
But again, I can't recall any reports of kabooms with them.
On the other hand, I've seen a lot of people exaggerating issues in order to support their particular viewpoint.
How many SIGs have "just fired on their own" over the years. There's been a lawsuit or three over that. How many lawsuits have you seen over XD/XDM pistols blowing up?
If you like your XD/XDM and like to shoot it then just keep shooting it.