I'm shopping for a carry gun for my girl. She can handle up to a 9mm pretty well. A couple of my choices are the XD subcompact and a Ruger SR9C. I have an XD45 that I love and have had zero problems with and all my rugers are revolvers except for the mandatory MKII. She has small hands is why I was thinking of the SR9, a much slimmer grip. Does anyone own both, and what are your thoughts of pro's, cons either way. Thanks for the help.