Until you have put the first 1000 rounds downrange I would recommend the XD. After you understand the mechanics of shooting; i.e. trigger control, follow through and sight alignment/picture then see if you can find someone to let you shoot their 1911. I do not believe in the one gun fits all category.
A golfer carries 14 clubs for a reason. I have an Colt Officer 1911 for CCW w/North American Arms 32 NAA for backup, 2 extensively worked on Colt 1911's for USPSA Limited10, a Charles Daly 1911 w/Wilson 22 conversion for trigger control practice, a Beretta 92 Vertec for USPSA Production, a compensated Glock 21 for USPSA Open, a Para Ordnance 14-45 for USPSA Limited, a Ruger Super Blackhawk 44 Mag w/10 1/2" barrel Magna Ported w/1-6X scope for fun deer hunting, a Smith & Wesson Model 29 44 Mag w/4" Magna Ported barrel for hiking, a Ruger Mark II Target w/1-4X scope for gophers, a Ruger 22-45 for cheap 1911 practice, a Beretta U22 w/red dot sight for cheap open practice, a modified Remington 1100 12 Ga w/10shot tube for USPSA 3 gun, a Bushmaster XM-15 Disapator w/40 round mags & a Mossberg 500A w/8 shot cap for the bedroom. I forgot the S&W 686 357 Mag & the Colt Trooper Mark III 357 Mag that were sort of a phase before the Model 29 & Super Blackhawk.
Now a new phase, I have a XD9 in layaway which will become the USPSA Production gun and the Beretta will get Crimson Trace laser grips for basic pistol instruction.
Before they get angry I must mention the Marlin Camp Carbine 45ACP w/15 round mags, Remington 11-87 for skeet/trap, Browning Citori w/tubes for skeet 4 gun, Remington 700ADL 22-250 for pararie dogs, Ruger 10-22 for gophers. I think I exceeded my club allotment in pistols.