Trying to get wife interested in shooting and hopefully get her CHL. I have XD40SC, 44spl Bulldog revolver, 38 spl S&W Airweight, 357 Taurus full size revolver, 44 mag S&W (way too much for her), and 22 auto & revolver (too small for CHL). Has anyone tried the reduced recoil ammo in 40, 44spl, 38, or 357 and is any of it OK for self defense? If she shows any interest I'll get her whatever she wants but no sense getting a "girl gun" if she won't use it. She shot the Bulldog years ago with standard ammo with no problem so she can stand some recoil.