I got my CCW a while ago but still have to purchase my gun/s. I'm getting a XDM 3.8 SC 9mm but I've never carried a firearm before. I am kinda FAT , bought and paid for...hey what can I say, OLD SCHOOL ITALIAN and mother-in-law and grandma-in-law practically force feed me :shock:. Anyway, I have a bit of the love handles so I don't know how good an in the waistband holster will work and I don't want to use a shoulder holster either. Any ideas?