My brother in-law really, really wants to get himself an XD45 Sub-Compact. The brick wall he keeps running into is his wife. She will not let him get one. She says that he does not need one and there daughter (9 years old) will get ahold of it. What can I tell her to convice her that bad things happen to good people and you should be prepared for anything. Personally I think she is terrified of a gun in the house. Do you guys think taking her to the range and having her squeeze a few rounds off will change her mind? Have any of you had this problem with your wives?