I am looking at getting a new xdm and wanted your allls comments and help me try to make a decision.. i currently own my first and only pistol which is a xd9, i was wanting to get a xdm before the first of the year but not real sure which one to buy. i want somehting to carry eventually so i was thinking a 40 but then also thought about the xdm9 so i was wondering what you all thought about it... i know 40 will be more expensive to shoot but i am goint to start reloading soon so that will help on the cost of shooting and so realistically reloading 9 and 40 will be about the same (cheaper than buying new) so that being said wat do you all think. should i stick with a 9 or go bigger.. and obviously i will want to just shoot some lead in the ground so it wont be just a SD gun.. and more than likely when the time comes and if i can still get it after obama gets in maybe get a subcompact for CCW so