Well... there goes any chance for "Bonita Springs Mother of the Year"....

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  1. jmichna

    jmichna XDTalk 25K Member Founding Member

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    If you're going to "dine & dash" at least clue in the kids to give 'em a fighting chance to get away too!

    Mother accused of dining & dashing, falsely reporting daughter left behind was kidnapped
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    Melissa Ashley Graham
    of Bonita Springs


    By VALLI FINNEY
    Naples Daily News
    February 17, 2011
    A Bonita Springs woman is accused of skipping out on a restaurant bill, leaving her 12-year-old daughter behind and then calling the Sheriff’s Office to say her daughter was kidnapped.

    Melissa Ashley Graham, 38, of the 28000 block of Vermillion Lane, was charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor/causing a minor to become needy and with obstruction of a criminal investigation/filing a false report about a missing person.

    According to Lee County Sheriff’s Office reports:

    Deputies were called to Bonefish Grill, 26381 U.S. 41 South in Bonita Springs, about a woman who didn’t pay her bill and left her daughter behind. Matthew McNeff, the restaurant manager, told deputies the girl told him her mother was outside.

    They walked outside and found Graham in her car. Graham said she left a credit card on the table to pay the bill. He told Graham the card wasn’t on the table and he needed another form of payment.

    The mother said she was with someone named Pagellis and that person would get the money. The girl said they were not with a person named Pagellis, which is the name of a restaurant. The mother then left the parking lot.

    Deputies spoke with the girl, who said Graham had ordered dinner and a bottle of wine and drank two or three glasses. Her mother then “began to act weird, spit out her bread on the table and shoved her food across the table” and told the girl to “get a box.” The mother left and the girl waited for her return.

    Graham called her daughter on a cellular telephone, asked where she was and then disconnected the call. Deputies attempted to call Graham back, but she did not answer.

    About an hour later, Graham called 911 and said her daughter was abducted from the restaurant by two Hispanic or dark-colored men, about 20 to 30 years old, driving a light colored or cream sedan.

    At first Graham declined to speak with detectives, but changed her mind and gave a statement.

    The Florida Department of Children and Family Services took custody of the girl.

    Graham claims she is an attorney, but a search of the Florida Bar Association website did not find a person by that name. :shock:

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    Sounds like mom's out of the running for this year's Bonita Springs Mother of the Year Award.

    Dine & Dash
    Abandonment
    False Kidnapping Report
    Bogus Attorney Claim

    Wonder what meds Mom went off of? :oops:
     
  2. Thunder71

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    Just wow.
     
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    I blame the food (poisoning). :D :rolleyes:
     
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    That was AWSOME!!!!
     
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    kyletx1911a1 XDTalk 500 Member

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    :Dthere they go blame the black guy(dont get serious im black)
     
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    Naw man. She was blaming Mexicans...:p
     
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    kyletx1911a1 XDTalk 500 Member

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    whewwww i can put my alibi back:razz:
     
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    ArmyGuy45 XDTalk 10K Member Founding Member

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    Go big or go home ... right?
     
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    wow that must have been some good wine! What a piece of trash, I feel so bad for that little girl, she's in a no win situation at this point.
     
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    come on now, this is Florida...they were Cubans!
     
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    that was astonishing.
     
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    This mother died a couple days ago in a head on collision, let's all have some respect for her daughter she has left behind. It's very sad.


    LOUISVILLE, Ky. — WLKY.com
    Two people are dead after a late-night crash in eastern Jefferson County.
    The crash happened just before 12 a.m.Monday in the 14000 block of Taylorsville Road near Pope Lick Road.
    According to Louisville Metro Police, a woman believed to be in her late 30s was a driving a Jeep Cherokee and a man in his late 20s was driving an Acura.
    Both drivers were pronounced dead at the scene.
    The coroner's office has identified the victims as Melissa A. Graham, 38, of Bonita Springs, Fla., and Benjamin A. Koier, 19, of Fisherville, Ky.
    Both died at the scene from blunt-force injuries, according to the coroner.
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    Police said it is still unknown how the crash happened, but someone might have witnessed it.
     
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    Melissa Ash Graham

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    [​IMG]GRAHAM, MELISSA ASH, 38, of Louisville, passed away on June 26, 2011.

    She was an attorney and the owner of Elder Care Planning.

    She was a legal advisor and executive manager for the Knight School of Welding.

    She was a graduate of the University of Kentucky and Brandeis School of Law, University of Louisville.

    Surviving is her daughter, Katelyn McKenzie Haggard; sister, Leslie Renee Ash; stepsister, Dawn Marie Hobbs Johnson; stepbrother, Matthew R. Hobbs and his wife, Jenny; nephew, Jeffrey Dorian Ash; niece, Shelby Renee Ash.

    Her funeral service will be at 10 a.m. on Saturday, July 2, 2011 at Highlands Family-Owned Funeral Home, 3331 Taylorsville Road, with burial in Cave Hill Cemetery. Visitation is 2-8 p.m. Thursday and noon-8 p.m. Friday at Highlands.

    Expressions of sympathy may be made to the charity of donor's choice.

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    Published in The Courier-Journal on June 29, 2011


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    My gawd are you a moron! You sign up to this forum with the sole purpose of reanimating a dead tread about someone acting like a complete ass and an idiot, asking for sympathy and respect?!?!

    Hopefully the "kidnapee" will see what those decisions brought about and lead her life differently. If that type of behavior was typical of her, her daughter will be better off without her. The original story also screamed out alcohol, drugs or psychosis to me. given the fact that she was involved in a head-on about a year later, makes me suspect she is responsible for the crash and killed an innocent young man.
     
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