Hello everyone, I own an XDm 9mm 4.5". I am a right handed shooter and have a normal grip with my right hand. Index finger over the trigger, right thumb resting in the groove on the frame above the mag release. No problems there. My problem appears to be with my left hand. My natural instinct when I pick up the firearm is to place my left index finger pretty firmly on the outside of the trigger guard, my left thumb on the frame just below the slide, and my left palm over my right fingers. I know that might be hard to visualize, but I am not able to provide a picture at this time. I am concerned that this is not the proper way to grip and fire my gun, primarily because of my left index finger on the outside of the trigger guard. Does anyone have any suggestions? Is there a right/wrong way to grip this gun when firing? Thanks.