Hello All, I will soon be a future XDM holder. I am a current M&P 9 holder (only 2 weeks old) but I know I love the sport already. I always wanted a firearm and finally went for it. Now my first choice was the XDM 9 but unfortunately due to limitations did not have the choice but I must say I am happy with my M&P 9mm. My question for you experts is the following: How is the XDM 45 4.5inch? How does the recoil compare? Any insight I should know between the M&P 9 and an XDM 45 4.5? ANY AND ALL TIPS ARE APPRECIATED. I hope and plan to be a great contributor to this forum. Thank you in advance for the welcome .