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XDConvert9mm · 05-14-2008, 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Kent

Sorry to hear about your story. It is never a fun thing to go through.

All I can share with you is that every woman I have ever known has had mental issues. I think it is a woman thing.....

That was 21 years ago so it is but a distant and unpleasant memory. One thing I have found is that expecting (and this is a generalization) women to have the same logical approach to problems as men is just not realistic. As one gets better at reading between the emotional lines it becomes easier to focus on what's really going on beneath the surface of any issues.

fritzmeister · 05-14-2008, 06:50 AM

I am pretty sure that my EX-wife has some form of "mental". I don't say that in a general funny way. Her own mother feels the same.

My advice is to RUN. Run the other direction as fast as you can. If her mom, & sister are bi-polar, and drama queens, then there is little hope for her to be "normal". It's all she knows. And it will way more taxing on you physically, and emotionally than you may ever want to deal with. Trust me I know.

Look up BPD (Behavioral Personality Disorder). Two books that will enlighten you are, SWOE (Stop Walking On Eggshells), and I Hate You, Don't Leave Me. Very similar to bi-polar disorder.

Katy9532 · 05-14-2008, 07:02 AM

Aren't you the guy that did not want to go to the dance with her? Maybe you were not really into the relationship to begin with? Not meaning to be harsh.... but maybe it was kinda mutual after all.

Anyway go with the abundance theory.

propellerhead · 05-14-2008, 07:06 AM

Too many drama queens out there. Tell her to piss off.

**newKid** · 05-14-2008, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by NC Dave

The Army recruiting office is still waiting for your call....

as i was hobnobbing through this thread (i dont read them too closely because my head starts to hurt) I was hoping you would turn up. . .

SgtWKPII · 05-14-2008, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by kubmiester

There are many "fish in the sea." Time to move on.

I would agree. How many threads have you started about this girlfriend now? You think one would learn. MOVE ON.

The Tengu · 05-14-2008, 07:22 AM

Forget about her. She'll only cause more chaos later.

texas_rebel_1980 · 05-14-2008, 07:30 AM

run, far far away. change your phone number, email, address, etc....

reminds me of the ozzy song for some weird reason.....Psycho man, psycho man, Looking for a victim wherever he can

insomniac791 · 05-14-2008, 07:48 AM

She sounds confused like most girls that age...to make a very long story short I recently caught my Fiance cheating on me with her ex-boyfriend and now that I finally caught her (after tons of weird things happening and rumors) i of course left her. Now she has tried to supposedly kill herself by overdosing on pills and totaled her car because she was mad and trying to get me to come back to her......she calls one minute mad and the next minute she is calling and asking if we are still going to get married.....She is 19 and in college

My best advice to you is to turn and not walk but RUN in the opposite direction!! Better to find out these things now than later!!

Best of Luck!
Matt

TheJosh · 05-14-2008, 08:15 AM

Two points if you will. I am by no means an expert but have had dealings with goofy chicks;

1. She's attention crazy. It seems to go hand in hand with age. Don't spend time worrying about it.

2. Next time she asks something like, "Does that make you jealous" or "I bet you're mad", simply respond in a way that's nonchalant such as "Na, that's cool, I've been doing all your friends" or "I talked to my ex last night for a few hours".

This will either cause her to shut her pie hole entirely, or run off. Either way she'll stop acting like a 13 year old or at least you won't have to deal with it. You're golden then so long as you don't act like you care - which you shouldn't.

05-14-2008, 06:50 AM	#22
fritzmeister XDTalk 1K Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: southeast Nebraska Posts: 1,342	I am pretty sure that my EX-wife has some form of "mental". I don't say that in a general funny way. Her own mother feels the same. My advice is to RUN. Run the other direction as fast as you can. If her mom, & sister are bi-polar, and drama queens, then there is little hope for her to be "normal". It's all she knows. And it will way more taxing on you physically, and emotionally than you may ever want to deal with. Trust me I know. Look up BPD (Behavioral Personality Disorder). Two books that will enlighten you are, SWOE (Stop Walking On Eggshells), and I Hate You, Don't Leave Me. Very similar to bi-polar disorder. __________________ ...to be truely happy in life, one must learn to embrace the recoil.....

05-14-2008, 07:06 AM	#24
propellerhead XDTalk 3K Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Foat Wurth, TX Posts: 3,294	Too many drama queens out there. Tell her to piss off. __________________ XD-9 Tactical for practice & IDPA, XD-40 Subcompact for concealed carry, XD-45 Service for home defense. Three purposes, three calibers, three models. One gun.

05-14-2008, 07:22 AM	#27
The Tengu XDTalk 1K Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 1,720	Forget about her. She'll only cause more chaos later. __________________ The militia of the United States consists of all able-bodied males at least 17 years of age and, except as provided in section 313 of title 32, under 45 years of age who are, or who have made a declaration of intention to become, citizens of the United States and of female citizens of the United States who are members of the National Guard. United States Code, Title 10, section 311, paragraph (a)

05-14-2008, 07:30 AM	#28
texas_rebel_1980 XDTalk 1K Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Seguin,Texas Posts: 1,195	run, far far away. change your phone number, email, address, etc.... reminds me of the ozzy song for some weird reason.....Psycho man, psycho man, Looking for a victim wherever he can __________________ It may be 5'clock somewhere, but its Beer Thirty here!!!

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05-14-2008, 07:02 AM	#23
Katy9532 XDTalk 100 Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: TX Posts: 166	Aren't you the guy that did not want to go to the dance with her? Maybe you were not really into the relationship to begin with? Not meaning to be harsh.... but maybe it was kinda mutual after all. Anyway go with the abundance theory.

05-14-2008, 07:48 AM	#29
insomniac791 XDTalk Newbie Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1	She sounds confused like most girls that age...to make a very long story short I recently caught my Fiance cheating on me with her ex-boyfriend and now that I finally caught her (after tons of weird things happening and rumors) i of course left her. Now she has tried to supposedly kill herself by overdosing on pills and totaled her car because she was mad and trying to get me to come back to her......she calls one minute mad and the next minute she is calling and asking if we are still going to get married.....She is 19 and in college My best advice to you is to turn and not walk but RUN in the opposite direction!! Better to find out these things now than later!! Best of Luck! Matt

05-14-2008, 08:15 AM	#30
TheJosh XDTalk Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 47	Two points if you will. I am by no means an expert but have had dealings with goofy chicks; 1. She's attention crazy. It seems to go hand in hand with age. Don't spend time worrying about it. 2. Next time she asks something like, "Does that make you jealous" or "I bet you're mad", simply respond in a way that's nonchalant such as "Na, that's cool, I've been doing all your friends" or "I talked to my ex last night for a few hours". This will either cause her to shut her pie hole entirely, or run off. Either way she'll stop acting like a 13 year old or at least you won't have to deal with it. You're golden then so long as you don't act like you care - which you shouldn't.