XDad, wow, I am sorry this is happening to you. How frustrating it must be!!! I feel like a total jerk for complaining about the 10-day wait here in California.
I hope you are now at the tail end of the wait!
Maybe this'll help: in California, we have a "list" of guns approved for purchase (at least new) and the XDm is not one of them. So, while I shot my new XD40 last evening for the first time and loved it, I'm still restrained by Kalifornia's socialist constraints.
Hang tough brother!
Respect from Survivor619